December 2019

Reindeer nepotism

I’ve seen the classic 1964 “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer” more times than I can count. And I’ve certainly heard the song hundreds of times. But I never put it together until watching it tonight that Donner is Rudolph’s father. It was almost the same feeling as learning that Darth Vader was Luke’s father. (Hope I didn’t spoil that for anyone.) Why doesn’t this ever come up in the song? Seems like significant information to me. Definitely some nepotism going on in Santa’s organization. Reindeer privilege.

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Donut control

I was just at a donut shop, and someone behind me asked the person behind the counter for a dozen donuts. Not an unusual request, of course. The donuteer asked the customer, “Do you want me to put it together for you?” Who on earth would leave the selection of a dozen donuts to the counter attendant? The risk that they would blow it and select poorly is simply too great. The only people who allow that kind of silliness from their donut shop are those who don’t care about the people for whom they’re buying the donuts. And…

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Work is not a playground

We’re moving into a new office next year, and the invitation for ideas was sent out. Predictably, there were calls for slides, video games, ping pong, a ball pit, and other adult play toys. One should bristle at any attempt by an employer to offer any amenities that make you less likely to want, or need, to go home. The Microsoft campus includes absolutely everything you’d need to live there, including dry cleaners, a post office, clothing stores, computer equipment (obviously), gyms, outdoor sports facilities, parking, etc. The goal is pretty obviously to keep your employees on the grounds…

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The wisdom of Joe Strummer

I’ve long made the case that it’s lazy thinking to dismiss information because of the source. “Where did you hear that? Fox News?” “Is that what MSNBC told you?” It goes on… The fact is, discounting a source, or assuming they’re lying is lazy thinking and stunting your own ability to learn, develop, and possibly change. The way people dismiss news sources, you’d think if Fox News reported our Supreme Court has nine judges, some would accuse them of lying just because it’s Fox News. (Our Supreme Court does have nine judges, for the record…) Fast forward to Joe…

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Google expertise is no expertise

We live in an age where whenever you need to accomplish something or learn a skill, you can find countless videos and information on how to do it. You don’t have to spend years learning to play guitar if you just want to learn how to play your favorite song. You don’t need to earn a design degree to create a website. You don’t need to spend years learning software engineering to write code that gets the job done. It’s the age of the Google expert. And we’re devaluing real skill, as a result. Design is art. It is…

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The path to fearless

Yesterday, I wrote about the false premise of a ruined life. After I published it, I continued to think about the ramifications of realizing your life can’t be ruined. It can be altered. It can change. You can certainly hit a setback. But there’s too many unpredictable events and opportunities ahead of you to determine that whatever negative experience you just endured has permanently ruined your life. It is when you realize that your life is ahead of you and not dictated by your past that you can achieve true freedom. The fear and uncertainty that comes with an…

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“My life is ruined”

I just heard someone say this recently. They were being entirely serious. The thing is, there’s no such thing. Too often people who’ve been fired or laid off, divorced, injured, or received other bad news, react as if that is it. Their life is over. That attitude comes from lacking perspective. Life is a marathon. If you’re laid off when you’re 30, it’s hard for some to keep in mind you probably have 50 or 60 years to go. And a lot can and will happen in that time. The key is to look past the significant negative event…

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